Starting the New Year with a Challenge: A Simple life? 

Ah, January – the month of resolutions, fresh starts, and unbroken optimism. For parents of twins, though, the idea of simplicity might sound like a myth, akin to unicorns or quiet car rides. But this year, I’m determined to channel my inner Marie Kondo (with a touch of caffeine-fueled resilience) and take on a challenge: simplifying life with twins.

Step 1: Declutter the Chaos

Having twins can mean double the gear, double the toys, and double the laundry. My first step toward simplicity is tackling the toy explosion. If it doesn’t spark joy or hasn’t been played with since last year, it’s out. I’ve embraced the mantra: "Less stuff, more imagination." Who knew that cardboard boxes and wooden spoons could entertain for hours? (Answer: every grandparent ever.)

Step 2: Streamline the Schedule

This year, I’m saying no to unnecessary commitments and yes to family and friend time, time for slow living and time to make memories. Who needs to leave the house when blanket forts and dance parties exist?

Step 3: Master Meal Prep (or Something Like It)

Feeding twins feels like running a restaurant with demanding, unpredictable patrons. My goal: simplify meals without sacrificing nutrition. I’ve embraced batch cooking and found the book "French Kids Eat Everything" to be my new life goal, ensuring there’s always something quick and healthy on hand. Bonus: fewer stress filled what do we have to eat moments. 

Step 4: Prioritize Self-Care

Parents of twins are often last on their own list, but this year, I’m making self-care non-negotiable. Whether it’s a quiet cup of coffee with my quiet time before the chaos begins or sneaking in a yoga session during nap time, I’m determined to recharge my batteries. A happy parent equals happy twins – or at least that’s the theory I’m banking on.

Step 5: Embrace the Imperfect

Life with twins is messy, unpredictable, and wonderfully chaotic. Embracing simplicity doesn’t mean striving for perfection; it means finding joy in the little moments and letting go of the rest. So what if the laundry piles up or the twins’ socks don’t match? As long as we’re laughing, we’re winning. I am changing my thinking to realize that every stain, break, and mess represent a memory a LIFE moment. I want to treasure those instead of see them as imperfections. 

The Unexpected Rewards

Since starting this journey, I’ve discovered unexpected perks. Fewer toys mean less cleanup. A simpler schedule allows more time for spontaneous giggles. And by focusing on what truly matters, I’ve realized how much joy lies in the chaos of raising twins.

So here’s to 2025: a year of simplicity, laughter, and maybe – just maybe – a little less clutter. To all the twin parents out there, I’m raising my (probably lukewarm) coffee to you. Let’s simplify, survive, and savor every moment of this wild ride.